What's a Girl's Best Friend, Horses or Diamonds?

Can you answer the question in the title?Horses also taught me responsibility because they
Some fashion magazines, writers and movies will tellneeded to be fed and cared for everyday morning
you that diamonds are a girl's best friend - but not inand night. Equipment and stables had to be taken care
my case and here is why…of and cleaned daily. Horses eat hay and we had farm
Hi, my name is Linda Shute from New Jersey, andland to raise hay. This meant harvesting. When I was in
here is why riding horses is one of my greatestmy teens sometimes I could be found driving the
passions in life…tractor raking the hay fields or using the baler, other
As a child I think I was born with horses on my brain,times I may be on the wagon behind the baler stacking
they've always been in my life and very close to me inthe hay for my horses. Then it would have to be
many ways.transferred from the hay wagon into the barn.
Before I was old enough to drive I was very mobileSince then I have bought, sold and raised about fifteen
because of my horses.horses. One of my favorites was Friday's Anthem. As
My uncle gave me my first pony Trotter, his color wasa girl of sixteen I won the "Rookie of the Year" award
chocolate palomino, he had no pedigree to speak offor the "Girls Rodeo Association" Eastern Chapter.
just your above average pony.One of my prizes was a free stud fee to a quarter
Trotter was very dear to me until I out grew him. Hehorse stallion. I bred my mare and the colt was born on
would perform under saddle or in harness. I started outGood Friday. I named him Fridays' Anthem. I trained him
riding western because it was the most popular wherefor English and Western riding and showed him at local
I live.quarter horse shows I eventually sold him for $2500.
Sometimes I would ride bareback and jump over smallThe horse shows taught me to strive to achieve more.
obstacles in the yard.Observe the competition and see what they are doing,
Self made fences like two columns of a few basketswhat does the judge like, who is being pinned higher
or boxes piled up with a broom across the top. Notthan we are. Train your horse different get him to
much to look at, but creative enough for an eight yearperform different or better.
old kid and it served my purpose besides Trotter didn'tA diamond can't teach you that.
care what it looked like.I lived in the country and our nearest neighbor was
Mom wasn't to happy a few times when weabout 3/4 of a mile away.
miscalculated and broke the broom handle then sheMy relationship to my Horses was the same like that
had to go buy new broom to sweep the floor.of a close friend.
Trotter took me all over, sometimes I would ride himThey each have their own personalities and
and we would go out roaming around for four or fivetemperaments just like people.
hours we would travel ten or fifteen miles from home.They show their feelings in their eyes and ears. If
I would cut through farmers' fields always careful tothey're having a bad day when you go to the stable
stay on the edge as not to harm their crops that wereyou may find a tail in the doorway instead of a face.
growing. My favorite ride in the summer was towardsWhen you enter the stall you may find ears laid back
the small town of Swedesboro through the peach andon the neck instead of pricked forward you learn to
apple orchards.read their body language.
A diamond can't take me to the orchards or share aThey have dreams just like we do. I remember this
piece of fruit with me.Standard bred race horse I was taking care of, a
As a small girl of eight or ten nothing was sweetertrotter named Noble Tryst. He was good enough to
than a fresh apple or peach eaten on top of my pony.race in The Hamiltonian. He would take a nap every
I would take a bite and give the rest to him, then pickafternoon he would stretch out in his stall and
another. I felt like the world was at my finger tips.sometimes have dreams. He looked like a big dog he
Trotter gave me freedom to explore the world he fedwould kick his feet and make noises. You don't see
my sense of adventure.this very often in horses. I never saw a diamond with a
Sometimes I didn't feel like riding or a friend would gopersonality.
with me, since I didn't want him carrying two us for thatOne day when I was working on the race track I was
long I would hook him up to the cart and harness andstanding in front of this filly and yawned. Then the filly
drive him.yawned, the one in the next stall yawned, and so it
The only way a diamond can provide freedom is ifwent down the length of the barn - just like people do.
you sell it for a high price and use the money toWhen you're riding or working a horse and ask for
escape from something.more they will give you their best and then some. How
How can a diamond feed your sense of adventure?do you ask a diamond for more and receive it?
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I don't likeIf you're having a bad day you can wrap your arms
diamonds. They do have a big sparkle and look nice.around your horse's neck and hang on to something
They can also be very expensiveand they can turn their head toward you and wrap
As I got older I out grew Trotter and sadly had to sellyou into their neck like a hug. I'd like to see a diamond
him for a bigger horse.do that!
I still remember the person that bought Trotter comingThey'll listen until you're tired of talking or crying which
to the house to pick him up. We loaded him into theever the case may be.
back of his pick-up truck and Trotter was screamingHorses can be expensive, the initial cash outlay for the
(whinnying) and kicking he didn't want to leave, mypurchase and the ongoing upkeep. Now you can go
heart was being ripped out, yet I couldn't keep twoout and buy a grade horse, buy that I mean your
animals and I needed a bigger mount.average run of the mill un-registered horse for around
It was a hard lesson learned.$500- $1000.