Humility and the Horse - Life Lessons Learned From Horses

It's very ironic how true horsemanship puts humility intothe horse. The way horses naturally are is one way
the human. Most people may think of humility as a badthe horse can teach you about yourself. A horse can
thing, as if being humiliated. Humility in its simplest formfind your weakness in minutes, sometimes seconds.
just means modesty or respectfulness. Horses haveThis can lead to your frustration because he is not
taught me so many things about being a better person.listening to you. He is listening to you, but you may not
A horse can almost instantly forgive a transgression,be listening to him. He is telling you of your weakness
but he won't forget. That makes a horse a perfectthat no human has the guts to tell you. Which leads
partner.you done the path of truth and the ultimate dose of
That's look at one thing that makes the horse thehumility. If you can't take large doses of truth and
perfect lesson in humility. An average horse usuallyhumility, then a horse something you need to stay
weighs about 1,200 pounds. They are quick and strong.away from. When you except humility you are one
They have hooves and teeth, and are non meatstep closer to being a horseman or horsewoman and
eaters. They speak a language different from thea better person.
verbal one we humans speak. Now we have to talk aYou have to figure out your mistakes and be truthful
1,200 pound animal into doing things he normally wouldwith yourself. A horse will become a mirror of you. If
not do. Such as going into a trailer, being ridden andyou don't like what's in the mirror don't look at the
being shod as a few examples. We have two choiceshorse. that should humble you. You see to have true
working with a horse, get frustrated which usuallysuccess you have to listen to the horse, be firm
results in getting mad or giving up. Then we have theenough and fair enough to get the horse to his task
other option, learning what works with little effort onsoftly. Being pushy and bossy and won't get you the
our part. That usually leads to admitting we don't knowhorse you want, neither will being a push over.
and seeking help.They say a dog is man's best friend. That must mean
Its an old truism, a horse can never lie. But they dothat the horse is man's best partner. A horse requires
wear their emotions on their body for the world to seethree components for a successful relationship. You
if you know what you are looking at. A horse canmust earn each one sincerely. They are TLC. Trust,
read your emotions very quickly. He can see instantlyLeadership and Communication. Every interaction must
if you are timid, aggressive or ignorant in the ways ofbe spoken eloquently, like you mean it.